EXAMPLE | NEUROTYPICAL SAYS | NEUROTYPICAL MEANS | AUTISTIC SAYS | AUTISTIC MEANS |
“You aren’t listening to me” | “You aren’t listening to me” | I am so angry at you that I am breaking all social rules and speaking to you directly. | “You aren’t listening to me” | The words I am saying, you are not listening to. |
“It’s cold in your office” | “It’s cold in your office” | Adjust the thermostat to make it warmer. | “It’s cold in your office” | It’s cold in your office (but I am not expecting you to do anything). |
“When you get a minute, can you do (insert thing)? No rush.” | “When you get a minute, can you do (insert thing)? No rush.” | Drop everything and do this now. | “When you get a minute, can you do (insert thing)? No rush.” | Feel free to do this whenever you have time. I do not need it now. |
“Can you give me some honest feedback on (thing they’ve done/made/wo rked on)?” | “Can you give me some honest feedback on (thing they’ve done/made/wor ked on)?” | Please say only positive things, regardless of how you really feel. | “Can you give me some honest feedback on (thing they’ve done/made/work ed on)?” | Give me honest feedback. My feelings won’t be hurt. |
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